25 And Yet to begin

It ain't often that guys or for that matter even girls nearing their 25th birthday start introspecting about what they are and where they have reached in life instead of letting their hair down at some hip party , yet once we start pondering about all those things that were , are and will be according to us a part of our life that we realize that we are soon gonna be 25 And we are Yet to begin. Begin something that can in its true sense can be called life , something that you have always heard about in stories from elders and you are yet to experience the same First Hand , something that you feel is truly abstract yet has many co relations with what you have done , are doing and have plans for , something many people term as Success and the modest individuals term as making money out of their sheer humility for Mankind.

It is often said that the age 25 starts a mid life crisis in a Male as the female brain is somehow wired differently and their mid life apparently never comes. For the men who at 25 , having graduated from some mediocre colleges , earning a mediocre salary good enough to pay the high rents of the metros and enough to make a living out of the so called under appreciated and yet so prevalent monotonous Professional life  , this age factor does tend to provide a sense of notice about the Life.

The noticeable pressure of holding on to the job , holding onto the love affairs , making new friends , extending the so much hyped social circle , trying to reach up to the expectations of the family  and the burden of just thinking about having reached a marriageable age something that we are constantly reminded about by everyone around us not only adds to the trauma of not having done anything of note until now but in many cases leads to a nerve shattering breakdown of the individual.

For everyone doesn't have that born talent of a SRT and the will to continue doing something that you must have loved since you were a child , for many 25 something men in this country don't even have a vision for their own life and future let alone the vision for some one else , for many 25 something men working in what so ever industry get heavily excited at the stories of the self made entrepreneurs but never ever try and look into their own selves for getting  besotted with faith in themselves , for many of us don't come out of the entrepreneurship - investment co relation kind of rut that people have put us into , for many of us have the ideas probably much later than some amazingly talented and hardworking individuals who we believe have set the standards that we probably cannot match in this lifetime.

P.S- Doing some thing that you love is difficult ,  falling in unconditional love with what you do is more impossible  but doing something that you have always feared and loving it along with excelling in it at the same time can simply not be put in humane words and thoughts.

The writer is about to be 25 and is YET TO BEGIN !!!